Sunday, February 28, 2010
Sunday morning homily XXII
For those left behind -- his grieving family, two shocked hockey programs and teammates still in disbelief -- the numbing pain remains. Tyler, a kid so full of life and laughter, is gone.
To Colin, Tyler was a "big brother," someone who tolerated his little buddy's locker room antics, attempts to trip him during shared practices and someone to clear a path to the net for during the occasional stick-and-shoot. To Tyler, Colin was someone to share the joy of a bubble hockey game, even if it meant losing to the pesky kid.
I heard from more than one person, including Tyler's family, that Colin meant the world to Tyler. The feelings, I know, were mutual. In a way, those words brought some comfort. But, they also brought some pain. Role models, I believe, need to be there, leading the way, knowing and showing the difference between right and wrong.
Through his death, Tyler has given Colin, as well as every other young hockey player, a very valuable lesson.
Before the funeral, Colin wanted to know if Tyler was, indeed, a bad person. No, I told him, Tyler was not a bad person. Tyler was a good person, a kid who liked to have fun, played the game of hockey hard and, when necessary, stuck up for his teammates. What Tyler did, I told Colin, was make a bad decision.
At the best, Tyler's death is a learning experience. For many, including Colin, it was the first time they've suffered the death of a friend. To see Tyler's ashen, but calm, face in his open casket. To see tears fall down so many faces of Tyler's family, friends and teammates. To see, up close, the finality of life.
The biggest lesson, though, was about consequences. Losing one's life is a pretty harsh consequence for one bad decision. That, however, was the message. All it takes is one poor decision -- a single act of stupidity -- and you may pay with your life.
Talk about the ultimate consequence, right?
During the funeral, populated with teammates and friends wearing hockey jerseys, it was very difficult to not look at these young men and think two things: 1.) Thank God it wasn't any of them who were we grieving for; and 2.) Are there any others who we need to worry about? In every hockey family, parents have more than one child to watch out for. We watch out for every child on the team.
At that time, looking upon our sea of black-and-gold jerseys and one of his framed portraits on the church's altar, I prayed to Tyler, asking him to watch over his friends, to keep them from traveling the same path and, unfortunately, making the same bad decision. I also asked him to protect his teammates while they were on the ice.
In looking for a silver lining in this darkest of clouds, I asked Tyler to be their angel. Especially, Colin's hockey angel.
To that end, I've tucked one of Tyler's prayer cards inside Colin's helmet. One side of the card, which shows a set of hands in prayer, faces upward, to the heavens. The other side, containing of picture of Tyler, points downward, so he can watch over his little buddy.
There's also a prayer -- a child's verse -- under Tyler's picture:
Now I lay me down to sleep,
I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to keep,
If I should die before I wake,
I pray Thee, Lord, my soul to take.
Comforting words? Maybe. Kids aren't supposed to die.
Trading places
Say you're hounding the Ontario Hockey League, just like Mike, who's shared some of his hounding hauls in eastern Canada. Using online hobby chat boards, he's found a trading partner from a Western Hockey League hound.
These show some of the items Mike's received through those exchanges, including some sweet pucks scored during the 2010 World Junior Championships in Regina:
Top row: Moncton Wildcats' Kirill Kabanov, an expected 2010 first-rounder; Moncton Wildcats' Brandon Gormley; and Moncton Wildcats' Nicola Riopel, a Philadelphia Flyers goaltending prospect; and;
Bottom row: Spokane Chiefs' Jared Cowen, a Ottawa's top pick in 2009; Kewlona Rockets' Brandon McMillan, an Anaheim Ducks prospect; and Moose Jaw Warriors Travis Harmonic, a New York Islanders prospect.Top row: Lethbridge Hurricanes' Carter Ashton, one of Tampa Bay's two No. 1 picks in 2009; Regina Pats' Colton Teubert, Los Angeles' No. 1 pick in 2008; and Brandon Wheat Kings' Brayden Schenn, Los Angeles' No. 1 pick in 2009; and
Bottom row: a pair of pucks from Regina Pats' Jordan Weal.Top row: World Juniors teammates Luke Adam, Gabriel Bourque and Marco Scandella; and
Bottom row: Montreal Canadiens legend Henri Richard; Jordan Eberle, who captained Canada's WJC championship squad, and another Canadiens legend Yvan Cournoyer.
Saturday, February 27, 2010
Getting a head start
Hall, playing for the OHL's Spitfires, joins London's Nazam Kadri, Toronto's top 2009 pick, on this Team Canada celebration photo.
St. Louis prospect Alex Pietrangelo, a defenseman taken fourth overall in 2008 by St. Louis, would make a nice hat trick.
Going prospecting

I'm sure you'll recognize some of these names:

Bottom row: Nazam Kadri London Knights photo and Michael Hutchinson London Knights photo
Top row: Brampton Battalion 2009-10 team-signed poster; and
Bottom row: OHL pucks, from left, from Cody Hodgson, 10th overall in 2008 by Vancouver Canucks; Matt Clark, Scott Harrington and Barkley GoodhewsEight members of the Windsor Spitfires on a team sheet: Taylor Hall, the likely No. 1 pick in June, Greg Nemisz, Calgary's top pick in 2005; Adam Henrique; Cam Fowler, the top-rated defenseman in the 2010 Entry Draft; Ryan Ellis, a 2009 first-round pick of the Nashville Predators; Craig Duininck, Stephen Johnston and Mark Cantin. Ellis also signed this Team Canada puck.
Friday, February 26, 2010
Custom work

Here, Brett, who hails from Alberta, shares his passion for the hobby as well as his talent for designing cards:
Brett's custom cards


At first, my skills were pretty slim, but with each card I made, I saw improvement. Eventually, I won a couple rounds. One time, I even won the whole contest.







As you can see, I love making custom cards. For me, for others. ... I've even got my 11-year old niece into it. We've designed a template for some Twilight cards (her favorite movie). We're hoping to get some cards out in the mail this year and hopefully we can snag some autos.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Team Canada women win gold

Bottom row: Colleen Sostorics, Gina Kingsbury, Carla MacLeod and Charline Labonte.

Bottom row: Hayley Wickenheiser (unsigned, yes, but who knows?) and Jennifer Botterill.
Cards are from In The Game's 2007-08 O Canada set
Moody's Olympics Gold: Team Czech Republic
Cards signed by some of Team Czech's players:

Bottom row: Nashville's Martin Erat, New Jersey's Patrik Elias, Avangard's Jaromir Jagr and Phoenix's Zbynek Michalek.






Right Photo: Tomas Vokoun with Mikayla during a Florida Panthers visit

Most of these items have been signed over the past two seasons, either in Hockey Bay or South Florida.
Moody's Olympics Gold: Team Slovakia
Cards signed by some of Team Slovakia's players:

Bottom row: Locomotiv's Richard Zednik, New York Rangers' Marian Gaborik, Los Angeles' Michal Handzus and Chicago's Marian Hossa.
More cards signed by Team Slovakia players:

Bottom row: Tampa Bay's Andrej Meszaros, Chicago's Tomas Kopecky, Boston's Zdeno Chara and HK 36's Ziggy Palffy.



Most of these items have been signed over the past two seasons, either in Hockey Bay or South Florida.
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
Coping skills
His latest gem? A definition of the term "Leafland," another name, I suppose, for Leafs Nation.
"It's the only place in the world," Al says, "where subpar hockey players putting on subpar performances night after night are treated like gods."
Still, though, when you're able to mingle with some of the "gods" and add these items to your collection, it's like that proverbial spoonful of sugar helping a particularly bitter medicine go down:
McFarlanes
A pair from former Leaf Doug Gilmour, who's coaching the Kingston Frontenacs of the Ontario Hockey League;
Goalie Jean-Sebastien Giguere; and
Defenseman Luke Schenn.
PucksRetro Leafs logo pucks, from left, signed by Mike Komisarek, Nikolai Kulemin and Alexei Ponikarovsky; and
Maple Leafs big logo pucks, from left, signed by Tomas Kaberle, Luke Schenn and Mikhail Grabovski.
Assorted itemsTop row: Former Leaf Jason Blake on a McFarlane base and a Team Canada puck signed by Luke Schenn;
Bottom row: Pucks signed by Alexei Ponikarovsky and former Leafs goalie Vesa Toskala;An 8x10 signed by goalie Jonas Gustavsson;
A Leafs mini helmet signed by Alexei Ponikarovsky, Mikhail Grabovski, Francois Beauchemin, Jeff Finger, Garnet Exelby, Ian White, Tyler Bozak, Matt Stajan, Vesa Toskala, Tomas Kaberle, Wayne Primeau, Nikolai Kulemin, Niklas Hagman and Tyler Bozak; and
The old standby, cards:
Top row: Matt Stajan, John Mitchell, Jamal Mayers and Stajan; and
Bottom row: Niklas Hagman, Lee Stempniak, Alexei Ponikarovsky, Mikhail Grabovski; andTop row: Jeff Finger, Vesa Toskala, Nikolai Kulemin and Colton Orr; and
Bottom row: Tomas Kaberle, Francois Beauchemin and Luke Schenn.
Intel
The Leafs players seemed to enjoy signing team items like the helmet, as opposed to the photos, pucks and cards that other hounds and dealers throw in front of them ... Phil Kessel is a waste of time, too, signing only a couple of items for one or two people, mostly young women, before taking off.
Monday, February 22, 2010
Moody's Olympics Gold: Team Russia
Cards signed by some of Team Russia's players:

Bottom row: Pittsburgh's Sergei Gonchar, Washington's Alex Semin, and Ottawa's Anton Volchenkov
More cards signed by Team Russia's players:

Bottom row: Washington's Semyon Varlamov, Pittsburgh's Evgeni Malkin, Edmonton's Denis Grebeshkov and Salavat's Dmitri Kalinin.


Most of these items have been signed over the past two seasons, either in Hockey Bay, Atlanta or South Florida.
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Rest in peace, Tyler
In consoling Colin, who looked up to Tyler as a role model in life and hockey, I told him to keep Tyler's memory in his heart.
I ask that you keep Tyler's family in your prayers.
Thank you.
Moody's Olympics Gold: Team Finland
I am not completely sure why, but I have been watching this group a bit more than I thought I would. Maybe because many of the players have been fan-friendly over the past few years. That always stands out for me.
Cards signed by some of Team Finland's players:

Bottom row: Phoenix's Sami Lepisto, Bufalo's Toni Lydman, Dallas' Jere Lehtinen and Minnesota's Niklas Backstrom.
More cards signed by Team Finland's players:

Bottom row: Carolina's Joni Pitkanen and Tuomo Ruutu, Ottawa's Jarkko Ruutu and Detroit's Valtteri Filppula.



Most of these items have been signed over the past two seasons, either in Hockey Bay or South Florida.
We still have photos of players like Lydman, Timonen, Nittymaki, and Pitkanen that were taken with Mikayla that we hope to finish (Finnish) off this season. She is also hoping to take care of a game stick from Nitty in the near future.